Sometimes white people make you lose your mind. I’ve had so many instances. A white women at a job didn’t like the way a worded someone’s name (the order or something) and mind you this is a hushed hall upscale piano showroom. She screamed, “it looks stupid!” I froze for a second in shock, then snapped “I’m not changing the whole thing over a fucking name!” Then she froze, then started stuttering “it’s fine. It’s fine”. They automatically assume when they want your time, your space, your attention you have to make room for them and it’s not happening. They need to adjust, not us.